The fact that January is going to end soon still leaves me in a shock. Time flies that fast, huh? I feel so bad that I haven't make a new year post or a 2017 recap post kinda thing like what most people do. I have been busy catching up with life and especially, uni. Well, what an excuse. However, I would like to thank 2017 for being a very very great year for me. In 2017, I said yes to many many many things. I learned to make important decisions, and especially, I learned how stand alone and solve things with my own feet. I learned that life can somehow be ruthless, but with a strong heart and positive mind, you can conquer it and good things will come to you. I learned that not everyone will like you, and it doesn't matter. How you love yourself and the way you treat yourself is all that matters. In 2017, I made plenty of friends. Sure, I lost some friends during my journey, but again, it doesn't matter. I also volunteered to many new outreach activities, beco
Many people are struggling with self-love. Do not feel lonely, because I, too, have been struggling with self love. Yes, it's true that some days are darker than the others, but it does not mean that the sun will never come out again. Therefore, I will turn this post into an open letter to everyone who has been struggling with self-love. There will be days when you are just sitting there at the rock bottom and pick up every flaws that you have, and that is okay . There will also days when you just shine brighter than the sun, feeling good about yourself, and that is also okay . We are not forced to become emotionless. We are allowed to feel, and that is part of being human. Self-love does not come from other people's assurance or compliments. It comes from yourself. It comes from your ability to see and embrace the positives, but also allowing yourself to listen and accept the negatives. You may not like every part of you, whether it is your looks, personal